Hannah E., Author and Writing Coach (hannahoeko.com)

Before working with Amber, my biggest challenge was believing that I was “doing it wrong”– life, business, love, everything. And believing I had to be someone else (more tidy, less alternative, less smart, sarcastic, Black) to be successful.

It made me feel afraid and full of a lot of self-judgment. I never felt satisfied because I believed I could have done it better and there was some perfect way just out of reach. I felt like I was spinning my wheels.

Through example and holding, I had support to meet the hard places without letting them have the final word. I was allowed to be ME. I could show up big. I could use each feeling as a way to honor the honesty inside of me. I stopped suppressing and waiting for some perfect day.

Now, I have SO much more engagement on social media and people who actually quote my posts back to me! People reach out to me (for consults) without me even trying. I feel way less attached to results. My website copy reflects me and how I speak.

I earned money as a writing workshop leader and showed up for people no matter how big or small the class. I quit my soul-sucking chatbot job and went on a retreat where I mostly just slept–and when the guilt and fear showed up, I allowed them.

Through our coaching together, I found I really don’t have to wait for anything. How every feeling (anger, irritation, sadness) is only a messenger. How deeply I was conflating money with self-worth AND how possible it is for me to make money in my own unique way. I feel way less weird about money, speaking about money, honoring my unique money wealth.

Now, I see myself as a leader in my current circle. I had this deep-seated insecurity that I wanted to escape by escaping who I was, but now I see that I can value the people around me and who I am right now. This is a blessing for someone who always believed she needed to be someone and somewhere else.

With our coaching together, I learned how to honor my body. Checking in and breathing through the hard places with caring attention, and just always coming back to the idea that my wound is a gift. I do not need to feel good or enthusiastic to do well.

I learned more about my codependent aspects of myself and how deeply I wait for others to name me. I learned deeply about my self-doubt and how to come back to myself. I also learned to trust my vision and to see myself as a leader.

If you’re on the fence about coaching with Amber, I’d say lean into your soul story. It’s okay to need help.

Your coach doesn’t have to 100% get every single thing about you to help you catapult to a greater vision of yourself.

It’s not about you copying anyone, it’s about someone witnessing you in your ultimate star power and seducing you into this most expansive self.

Invest now and greatly reduce all the mind drama of who you thought you had to be to make big impact and big money.